I'm riding the train, reading my April Elle and still smirking from the cutie who kept making eyes before just getting off the train. (Super random interjection, but why didn't he just say something? I definitely caught him staring 3+times. This isn't the L train...no missed connections here buddy. OK. This is rude. This story is bigger than this. /digression)
We continue riding and I hear a commotion. A woman is yelling at a guy, but I'm not sure what it's about. I chalk it up to stressed out New Yorkers and continue reading about Gwen Stefani & No Doubt's reunion assuming they would soon realize they were being silly and stop. They don't. The woman gets louder and says "Don't light that thing on the train!" I look over and see that the guy she's yelling at has a lighter and the flames seem larger than normal. It wasn't one of those $.99 cents Bic lighters, it was pretty hardcore. Congratulations kids, I'm now alarmed. The woman continues to tell the guy to stop and tries to knock the lighter from his hand and things get physical. The entire train is looking at this go down and people are starting to get a little frantic. The man tells the woman "I will f*cking kill you". The woman yells at the man "I will f*cking kill YOU!!" They are pushing one another. Another woman steps in to help.
OK. STOP.
This is where I get mad. Like, livid. I don't care if this is a feminist society and we're in the middle of a freaking bra-burning campfire. If a man is getting physical with a woman, why in the hell are men just standing around looking?!? My brain couldn't process this. I finally literally yell out "Why aren't any of you men helping?!?" At that point, 2 men run over to try to help restrain the guy. For context, this guy is probably 5'7 150lbs...I could probably take him. I'm in the middle of the car trying to calm people down and I look over and see blood gushing from the woman's face. While she was restraining the guy in the corner, he took out his
People are freaking out. 2 of us step up. 1 guy stops the people from pulling the emergency lever. That will only make the situation worst. I send someone to the conductor so he can call the police. The train starts to slow down though we are 2 stations away in an attempt to give the cops time to get to the station. The guy is now being held up by 5 guys in the corner. The woman is sitting on the train bench with blood gushing from her face and I'm standing there trying to calm people down. People are looking at me for instructions on what to do next, but what could we do?!
I started praying. Out loud. I prayed for that woman's health, her face and her family. I prayed that we were all safe. Amen.
We finally get to the train station...no cops. I run to every single car on the train and ask for a doctor or nurse. There wasn't a single medical professional on the entire train! (Note to self - donate to a cause getting more kids interested in healthcare) The guys are still restraining the man. 2 trains of people are out, trying to see what is going down. There were plenty of witnesses. A girl even took pics on her iphone. The MTA guy was attending to the woman. I could do no more. I am shaking...and I start to walk to work. I was 2 stops away, but I needed that time to pseudo-decompress from the craziest train ride I've ever had.
This woman was doing what she thought was right. She was standing up to this man for her safety...for our safety. This story will probably not make the news because this is New York - it's not news unless someone brutally dies...or someone involved is famous. My colleague was on a train behind me and was simply told "We are being held because of an 'incident' on an earlier train". I will never think of "incident" the same again.
UPDATE: This story did make the news...and mostly because of this blog. Crazy.
New York Daily News
MSNBC
Village Voice
DNA Info
Daily Mail in the UK (Peep the pixelated photo they swiped from this page that makes me look like a missing person lol. Crazy Brits.)
I also heard this blog quoted on Hot 97's Morning show. Crazy how fast word travels on the interwebs.
9 comments:
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i am glad you were on that train so that you could tell people to DO something and get involved. that woman might have died if you were not there. you saved someone's life today.
Wow Ro crazy. Glad u are ok and that you were able to stand up and help in some way.
Good for you for stepping in and helping. We need more people like you on the trains (and fewer unbalanced people like the cigarette guy)!
Im so sorry you had to witness that Ro. And I'm grateful for your safety.
Wow....thanks for the description. I run a blog about the wildest things that people see on the subway. Can I link to your blog and publish this post in its entirety on mine?
www.subwaysubculture.blogspot.com
Let me know what kind of responses you've gotten.
AND THANK YOU FOR SAYING SOMETHING TO HAVE OTHER PEOPLE GET INVOLVED AND HELP for goodness sakes!
you can write me directly (or anyone can, who has a crazy subway story at subwaysubculturemail (at) gmail (dot) com.
--marta
you have a great blogging style (and i wouldn't be surprised if you are completey unconscious of it because it just seems so .... natural). Following you now & please keep blogging NYC!
As I was mindlessly reading some local news articles, I stumbled upon this one and found out that my fellow aggie in NYC was THE witness. I'm sorry you had to go through that...talk about ridiculous. I'm happy you were able to help and that you're OK.
-Adrienne
Thanks for all of the kind words everyone! That was a crazy experience that I'm glad is over! :)
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